Safety resources
Telemender is tooling, not crisis support.
Changing a phone number is one tactic among many for managing personal safety. If you are in immediate danger, please reach a human who can help you assess your situation and your options. The lines below are staffed by people trained to listen without judgement.
If you're experiencing abuse or stalking
National Domestic Violence Hotline
24/7, free, confidential. English and Spanish; 200+ languages via interpreter.
- Call 1-800-799-SAFE (7233)
- Text START to 88788
- Chat at thehotline.org
NNEDV Safety Net — tech safety for survivors
Specialists who help survivors navigate phones, accounts, location tracking, and stalkerware. Routed via the hotline above; ask for tech-safety guidance.
See techsafety.org for resources you can read privately first.
If you're a journalist, activist, or source
Freedom of the Press Foundation Digital Security Helpline
Confidential help with secure communications, device hardening, and threat-model questions. Free for journalists and the people who work with them.
If you're an LGBTQ+ young person in crisis
The Trevor Project
24/7 crisis line for LGBTQ+ youth.
- Call 1-866-488-7386
- Text START to 678678
- Chat at thetrevorproject.org/get-help
What Telemender doesn't do
- It doesn't protect you from an attacker who already knows your physical location.
- It doesn't replace a safety plan made with someone trained in your specific situation.
- It doesn't offer guarantees about Apple, Google, or your carrier — the people who actually route your messages. We surface what we see; reliability depends on systems we don't control.
- It isn't a substitute for the hotlines above. Change your number after you've talked to someone about the rest of the situation, not before.
If a resource here is out of date or you'd like another added, please let us know.